For as long as I live I will never understand people.
Among other things, I have a list of questions that plague my mind every day concerning the human race. How have we gone this long as a society thinking it is acceptable to treat people the way some do? How do some people sleep at night? How can people even remotely justify their assholery? And here is the one that gets at me the most: Why am I shocked to see people continue in their assholery?
I’m going to take a second and write to a certain group of people. If you don’t fall under the category, I encourage you to still read along. You might be able to shed some light onto the topic.
Christians. We can be the absolute worst at this.
Why? Why do we insist on treating others so poorly? Nowhere in the Bible did Jesus ever treat people as if they only mattered if they could add to His Kingdom, that people are somehow dispensable. People are not a commodity. People have value and Jesus determines that value, not me and not you. I never once read where Jesus said “If you ever walk away from me, that’s it, you’re dead to me. There is no grace for you if you walk away. You cannot come back. This option is no longer. Dueces.” He never acted, spoke or taught people to act this way, so why are we? If we are acting this way, supposedly following Him, we’re doing it wrong.
The fallen world is watching us y’all. No wonder those who do not believe in Christ as their Savior hate us so badly. We are devouring each other. Why would anyone want to have a relationship with Jesus if all they see are His followers being assholes to each other? I feel like this is an obvious statement that I’m about to type but I’ve learned not to assume too much these days. Christian folk, please take this next sentence to heart. We have one common enemy and it is not each other, it is Satan. PERIOD. When we fight each other, we are wasting our energy firing missiles at the wrong target.
I am truly convinced getting hurt by brothers or sisters in Christ hurts worse than a slap in the face from the world. Hurt people, hurt people. I get it. I’m hurt too. To be honest, I am so badly burned that it seems my entire body is an open wound where others insist to pour salt on me. It hurts so badly. I am in desperate need of a healing salve. The only One who can offer the healing I need is Jesus. Not my words, not my retaliation, not my bitterness, not my hate, not my anger. It is Jesus.
Instead of adding insult to injury let us remember and take to heart that we are all on the same team. If we are too busy fighting each other we have zero time and energy to fight our actual enemy. We cannot reach a fallen world when our eyes are focused on each other instead of being focused on Jesus. Jesus’ message is peace and His gospel is love. Let’s stay in those parameters when handling our offenses. Besides, when we look at our offenses they pale in comparison to the offenses Jesus carried. Jesus didn’t respond to his hurt by hurting others. He didn’t use cutting words to make people feel less then Him. He forgave them. As Jesus was dying, He cried out to God, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34 ) If in His death, Jesus can forgive His offenders, surly we can follow His example and forgive one another.
Let’s receive the healing only Jesus can provide, put on love, grace, & forgiveness, move on and advance His Kingdom.